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Mindfulness: The practice of being "here"

As I mentioned in a recent Lifehacker interview with Matt, I’ve been casting about for a good way to work in my newfound interest in mindfulness, or the ostensibly Buddhist practice of bringing your attention and focus back to the present moment, primarily through breathing and awareness.

Well, here you go: one rank Western novice’s collection of blurbs and excerpts on an ancient (yet oddly timely) method for easing yourself back into this moment — any day, at any time, and in anything you choose to do.

Mindfulness is this and here

Mindfulness is the practice whereby a person is intentionally aware of his or her thoughts and actions in the present moment, non-judgmentally. Mindfulness is applied to both bodily actions and the mind’s own thoughts and feelings. In Buddhism, the second kind of mindfulness is considered a prerequisite for developing insight and wisdom. Right Mindfulness is the seventh path from the Noble Eightfold Path, which is in its turn the fourth of the Four Noble Truths.
Mindfulness - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

Fundamentally mindfulness is a simple concept. Its power lies in its practice and its applications. Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally. This kind of attention nurtures greater awareness, clarity, and acceptance of present-moment reality. It wakes us up to the fact that our lives unfold only in moments. If we are not fully present for many of those moments, we may not only miss what is most valuable in our lives but also fail to realize the richness and the depth of our possibilities for growth, and transformation.
Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. p.4 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

From the Buddhist perspective, our ordinary waking state of consciousness is seen as being severely limited and limiting, resembling in many respects an extended dream rather than wakefulness. Meditation helps us wake up from this sleep of automaticity and unconsciousness, thereby making it possible for us to live our lives with access to the full spectrum of our conscious and unconscious possibilities.
Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. p.3 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]


Just seeing

The question “What shall we do about it?” is only asked by those who do not understand the problem. If a problem can be solved at all, to understand it and to know what to do about it are the same thing. On the other hand, doing something about a problem which you do not understand is like trying to clear away darkness by thrusting it aside with your hands. When light is brought, the darkness vanishes at once.
The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts. p.75 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

Breaking the grip of ignorance and craving comes with just seeing, not with doing something particular about it. Once you see, your course of action will naturally follow.
Buddhism Plain and Simple by Steve Hagen. p.37 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

While practicing mindfulness, don’t be dominated by the distinction between good and evil, thus creating a battle within oneself.

Whenever a wholesome thought arises, acknowledge it: “A wholesome thought has just arisen.” If an unwholesome thought arises, acknowledge it as well: “An unwholesome thought has just arisen.” Don’t dwell on it or try to get rid of it. To acknowledge it is enough. If they are still there, acknowledge they are still there. If they have gone, acknowledge they have gone. That way the practitioner is able to hold of his mind and to obtain the mindfulness of the mind.
The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh. p.39 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

Don’t ponder: You don’t need to figure everything out. Discursive thinking won’t free you from the trap. In meditation, the mind is purified naturally by mindfulness, by wordless bare attention. Habitual deliberation is not necessary to eliminate those things that are keeping you in bondage. All that is necessary is a clear, non-conceptual perception of what they are and how they work. That alone is sufficient to dissolve them. Concepts and reasoning just get in the way. Don’t think. See.
Mindfulness in Plain English


Being here for this

Try reminding yourself from time to time: “This is it.” See if there is anything at all that it cannot be applied to. Remind yourself that acceptance of the present moment has nothing to do with resignation in the face of what is happening. It simply means a clear acknowledgment that what is happening is happening.
Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. p.16 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

There’s also mindfulness of mind. Until we deliberately listen for it, we usually pay little attention to the fact that there’s the constant chatter of a monologue — often idiotic — running in our minds. When we really lose ourselves, we can even work it up to a dialogue.

Our minds jabber to themselves much of the time…
Buddhism Plain and Simple by Steve Hagen. p.102 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

What is the use of planning to be able to eat next week unless I can really enjoy the meals when they come ? If I am so busy planning how to eat next week that I cannot fully enjoy what I am eating now, I will be in the same predicament when next week’s meals become “now.”

If my happiness at this moment consists largely in reviewing happy memories and expectations, I am but dimly aware of this present. I shall still be dimly aware of the present when the good things that I have been expecting come to pass. For I shall have formed a habit of looking behind and ahead, making it difficult for me to attend to the here and now. If, then, my awareness of the past and future makes me less aware of the present, I must begin to wonder whether I am actually living in the real world.
The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts. p.35 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

The art of living in this “predicament” is neither careless drifting on the one hand nor fearful clinging to the past and the known on the other. It consists in being completely sensitive to each moment, in regarding it as utterly new and unique, in having the mind open and wholly receptive.
The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts. p.75 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]


“Real life” mindfulness

The millions are awake enough for physical labor; but only one in a million is awake enough for effective intellectual exertion, only one in a hundred millions to a poetic or divine life. To be awake is to be alive. I have never yet met a man who was quite awake. How could I have looked him in the face? We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us in our soundest sleep.
Walden by Henry David Thoreau.

 

Henry David Thoreau’s two years at Walden Pond were above all a personal experiment in mindfulness. He chose to put his life on the line in order to revel in the wonder and simplicity of present moments. But you don’t have to go out of your way or find someplace special to practice mindfulness. It is sufficient to make a little time in your life for stillness and what we call non-doing, and then tune in to your breathing.
Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. p.24 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

PP: Besides the techniques [you teach to your patients], what else do people come away with?

JK: A lot of people drop the formal practice but maintain the mindfulness in daily living. They’ve developed it as a life skill. In times of great stress or pain, they know how to go to their breathing, to use it to calm down and broaden the field of perception, so that they can see with a larger perspective.

PP: People somehow internalize, not simply the technique, but where it’s coming from.

JK: Exactly. And that’s our emphasis. We don’t want a group of imitators when we get through with them, nor a group of super-meditators who are all tripped out about meditation. What we want are people who are basically strong, flexible, and balanced, and have a perspective on their own inner being that is accepting and generous.
Mindful Medicine - An Interview with Jon Kabat-Zinn

 

I am learning slowly to bring my crazy pinball-machine mind back to this place of friendly detachment toward myself, so I can look out at the world and see all those other things with respect. Try looking at your mind as a wayward puppy that you are trying to paper train. You don’t drop-kick a puppy into the neighbor’s yard every time it piddles on the floor. You just keep bringing it back to the newspaper. So I keep trying gently to bring my mind back to what is really there to be seen, maybe to be seen and noted with a kind of reverence.
Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott. [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

So, mindfulness will not conflict with any beliefs or traditions — religious or for that matter scientific — nor is it trying to sell you anything, especially not a new belief system or ideology. It is simply a practical way to be more in touch with the fullness of your being through a systematic process of self-observation, self-inquiry, and mindful action. There is nothing cold, analytical, or unfeeling about it. The overall tenor of mindfulness is gentle, appreciative, and nurturing. Another way to think of it would be “heartfulness.”
Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. p.6 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 

While washing the dishes one should only be washing the dishes, which means one should be completely aware of the fact that one is washing the dishes. At first, glance, that might seem a little silly. Why put so much stress on a simple thing? But that’s precisely the point. The fact that I am standing there and washing these bowls is a wondrous reality. I am completely myself, following my breath, conscious of my presence, and conscious of my thoughts and actions. There’s no way I can be tossed around mindlessly like a bottle slapped here and there on the waves.
The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh. p.3 [ ISBN | Amazon.com ]

 


So, why here?

The question will naturally arise: what does all this stuff have to do with manila folders, Getting Things Done, Quicksilver, and the rest of the usual smorgasbord on 43F? And I’ll confess that my answer for today is “I have pretty much no idea.

I do know that the more time I spend observing how people improve their decision-making at home and at work, the clearer it is to me that they are each developing a more cogent understanding of what’s “really going on” in their lives — they’re not being driven by some unseen motor to stay busy or overstimulated for its own strangely modest rewards.

For some people this might mean the ability to quickly re-prioritize on a busy day. For others it’s reflected in the calm concentration that can come from not checking email for an hour. And for a great many it’s the astoundingly simple realization — that obvious moment of realization — that this task and all of the others waiting behind it can just wait until tomorrow if it means I get to go home right now and enjoy an evening with my family. It means reacting to real reality rather than always dancing the manic watusi demanded by the ten-thousand monkeys in your head.

Over the next little while, I’ll be returning to the subject of mindfulness in sometimes overt and sometimes orthogonal ways, sharing some ideas about how people are finding its place in medicine, mental health, physical and health improvements, and — yes — even in the context of personal productivity.

But even (or especially) when decoupled from its practical role in solving any given problem, mindfulness has much self-evident value all by itself.

If you never learn to be here for this particular moment, you’ll remain a sleepy captive to every anxiety, fantasy, or unintentional habit that’s ever popped into your life. And that, my friends, is a crappy way to go through life.


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ZenFilter's picture

I'm so glad to see...

I’m so glad to see you expanding on the latent Zen philosophy in GTD, making it explicit, relevant, and comprehensible. I think you’re on the right track.

Mark Mason's picture

There is nothing to do,...

There is nothing to do, and no one to do it.

Forty-three folders. Who is the who who wants to know? Getting things done, one by one. Were I to divide my doing, and being, undone?

Michael Rose's picture

MindfulPodcasts Any one interested in the...

MindfulPodcasts

Any one interested in the Steve Hagen quotes (and is looking for some mindful podcasts) will be delighted to hear some of the MP3s at dharmafield.org

Mindfulness & GTD

As for mindfulness and GTD I’d like to spin it on its head.

I’ve been a meditator for a number of years, and a GTDer for less than one, and what got me the most about the procees is “getting everything off your mind and onto paper”.

Anyone who’s meditated properly for more than a few minutes will know what it’s like to get distracted, it’s natural right?, but over the years I’ve really started to noticed what it is I’m being distracted by again and again. I’ve been grouping them and analysing their roots rather than just dismissing them as ‘mere distractions’.

GTD has helped get a lot of it off my mind. The traditional advice is don’t get involved with the thoughts (at all) but I’ve found it very useful to make a quick note of the Next Action relating to the thought and… more often than I’d have expected… I can drop the distracting rat-hole much easier.

It’s early days but meditation is helping my GTD as much as my GTD is helping my meditation.

Holistic huh?!

Michael Rose (again)'s picture

oops. Forget to mention the...

oops. Forget to mention the fantastic ZenCast podcasts.

John's picture

To see a world in...

To see a world in a grain of sand, And a heaven in a wild flower, Hold infinity in the palm of your hand, And eternity in an hour.

-William Blake, Auguries of Innocence. First stanza.

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Army Brat's picture

This is a really good...

This is a really good reminder. It’s so hard for me not to live in the future, and miss what I am living in right now.

Keith's picture

On this subject I highly...

On this subject I highly recommend the book “Mindfulness” by Ellen Langer. Surprised no one has mentioned it yet. It says a lot of the same things.

http://tinyurl.com/e7e6j

Chris Elliott's picture

After reading Mind Performance Hacks,...

After reading Mind Performance Hacks, this is something that I have been attempting as well. I think it is very useful in the GTD methods, because it allows focusing on that next action you are working on. When you allow yourself to get caught up in every thought and tangent, you find a straying from your actions. I think that this practice will help you get back on track.

crow's picture

Merlin, have you ever read...

Merlin, have you ever read this essay by Simone Weil? http://www.chosunjournal.com/weil.html It is in the context of prayer and spirituality, which isn’t bad. But if that kind of thing turns you off, I still recommend it since her general argument about the soul (mind) is very interesting.

For example, this paragraph:

“Attention consists of suspending our thought, leaving it detached, empty, and ready to be penetrated by the object; it means holding in our minds, within reach of this thought, but on a lower level and not in contact with it, the diverse knowledge we have acquired which we are forced to make use of. Our thought should be in relation to all particular and already formulated thoughts, as a man on a mountain who, as he looks forward, sees also below him, without actually looking at them, a great many forests and plains. Above all our thought should be empty, waiting, not seeking anything, but ready to receive in its naked truth the object that is to penetrate it.”

marijane's picture

Merlin, have you read Eckhart...

Merlin, have you read Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now? That was my introduction to mindfulness, though he calls it “presence” or “being”. Interestingly, it was recommended to me by a friend after I explained GTD to them, back when I was a new GTD convert. I agree that there is definitely a connection between mindfulness and the concepts in GTD, and I think it is a very relevant topic here on 43 folders, even if you can’t quite articulate why yet. =)

Ellen's picture

Your mind's working in much...

Your mind’s working in much the same groove as mine these days, down to pondering how to apply Hagen’s and Kabat-Zinn’s and Thich Nhat Hanh’s insights to GTD.

Thanks for this post.

John (Uneasy Rhetoric)'s picture

Sounds like you have a...

Sounds like you have a very good idea of why a discussion of mindfulness belongs on a site like 43F. I think the concept of “mindfulness” is at the core of the GTD system; or at least GTD can help you get there.

Your paragraph that ends with the 10,000 monkey watusi sums it up nicely.

Fatlimey's picture

Aaaaand it's about here you...

Aaaaand it’s about here you lose me as a reader.

“Ah, an unwholesome thought has arisen.” CLUE: Not questioning the morality of your thoughts is a slippery slope.

Steve Mallett's picture

Getting a good night's sleep...

Getting a good night’s sleep is critical to mindfulness. A tired mind is a noisy, confused, cluttered, and ultimately one that is elsewhere. Working on it… sleephacks.com

Grillin' Man's picture

Ready to drop this blog...

Ready to drop this blog after the advertisements for all the books — totally agree with fatlimey. Not questioning the morality of our thoughts…

nate's picture

not questioning the morality of...

not questioning the morality of your thoughts goes against what all those books are saying - what they’re stressing is the ability to recognize what thoughts are good for you (help you practically) and what thoughts are bad for you (hurt you practically), not what is moral or immoral in some sociovalue paradigm. Paradigms - which must exist in order to define morality/immorality - have no place in Buddhist philosophy.

I recently read Buddhism: Plain and Simple by Steve Hagen, so I’m not pulling that opinion out of my, um, behind :)

Steve Mallett's picture

Acknowledging an immoral or moral...

Acknowledging an immoral or moral thought has nothing to do with questioning the morality of the thoughts. You are simply not debating it endlessly, you are simply “acknowledging” it as immoral or moral and moving on.

Thought: I want to nail my neighbors wife. Acknowledgment: That’s immoral, now let it go.

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Hardy Pottinger's picture

The latest issue of Yoga...

The latest issue of Yoga International (April/May 2006) has a great short article, up near the front, about devoting your attention to just one thing (as opposed to multi-tasking). I remember reading it and thinking it would be worth mentioning to the 43folders crowd. Your post on mindfulness seems as good a chance as any for me to do so.

I don’t have it with me, but if you see a copy in a store somewhere, pick it up. There’s a picture of a woman driving a car, and her kid in the back seat. It’s only 2 pages, you can read it right there in the store. Or buy it, it’s a great magazine.

Bear's picture

Note that he says either...

Note that he says either “A wholesome thought has arison” or “an unwholesome thought has arisen. The point is that simply labeling the thought as “unwholesome” and moving on follows the same idea as putting the puppy back on the paper. You can choose to either kick the puppy or gently correct it. The kicked puppy is likely to respond by sneaking to the corner next time nature calls.

Nobody is saying we should let the puppy have it’s way with your fine rugs, but beating yourself up isn’t going to be as effective as gently correcting yourself. For example, I had a devil of a time with keeping my kitchen clean. I finally got my act together once I stopped berating myself and started saying, simply but firmly, “no, you can’t leave until the dishes are clean.”

One of the things I really apreciate about the various secular budist writing is that it is seperate from morality. I already have a moral code that I live by and I’m not interested in what some dead guy had to say about it. It’s up to you to determine what you consider an unwholesome thought.

Ryan's picture

Getting Zen Done. You heard...

Getting Zen Done. You heard it here first!

Steven Kempton's picture

Merlin, as a reader of...

Merlin, as a reader of 43F I thoroughly support your move to discuss mindfulness with GTD. I am actually surprised that you feel it may be a little out of context for the discussion. I definitely think it has some valuable input into improving our efficiency. And more importantly reducing stress. One of the best techniques I have found from Thich Nhat Hanh’s “Miracle of Mindfulness” is the practice of choosing a day for “mindfulness” and spend that whole day trying to be mindful of everything you do. You only have to do that for a few hours to know that if you could bring that kind of focus to as much of your life as possible you will be better for it.

Jim Scolman's picture

"When you walk, just walk"....

“When you walk, just walk”. “When you do the dishes,just do the dishes”. Be here now.

This has a huge effect and affect on GTD, productivity, and Getting to Done.

Peace Jim www.scolman.com www.photoday.blogspot.com

Peter's picture

I would second Marijane and...

I would second Marijane and also recommend “The Power of Now,” but for folks who can’t swim that deep at first, another good book (for the mainstream business audience) is “The Present,” by the other Dr. Johnson, Spencer Johnson, M.D., author of “Who Moved My Cheese?”. My Dad, a retired H.R. executive, gave it to me. The latter’s subtitle is “The Gift that Makes You Happy and Successful at Work and in Life.” Check out http:\www.ThePresent.com.

Peter's picture

CORRECTION: "The Present's" subtitle is...

CORRECTION: “The Present’s” subtitle is “The Gift that Makes You Happy and Successful at Work and in Life.”

More from The Present: Three ways to use your present moments: 1. Be in the Present. When you want to be happy and successful: - Focus on on what is right now. - Use your purpose to respond to what is important now. 2. Learn from the Past. When you want to make the present better than the past: - Look at what happened in the past. - Learn something valuable from it. - Do things differently in the present. 3. Plan for the Future. When you want to make the future better than the present: - See what a wonderful future would look like. - Make plans to help it happen. - Put your plan into action in the present.

Hardy Pottinger's picture

Just a quick addition, the...

Just a quick addition, the article/essay I mentioned above, in the April/May Yoga International, is by Claudia Cummins, and is available on her own web site, here: http://www.claudiacummins.com/essays/onesip.html

And meditation, I decide, is merely an opportunity to practice the extreme edge of mono-tasking. What could be more basic than sitting quietly, observing the breath, and focusing on the raw ingredients of the here and now?

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Terence Reis's picture

Awesome. You might wanna check...

Awesome. You might wanna check this:http://www.urbandharma.org, as also, go for the free budhist audio at Odeo (although it’s been quite a while since my iTunes stopped communicating with Odeo). One thing I was wondering recently: Max Weber studies pointed out how capitalism could have emerged only in western societies, due mainly to the so-called protestant ethics. One particular study about religions focused on the eastern practice, and showed how it hindered the rise of a capitalist economy - even though they were more technically advanced. The thing is: nowadays we’re facing an unexpected change. If you look at all the recent literature on business most of them is an application of ancient eastern practices to present day economy and business. Especially budhism. Nevermind self-help books - the best sound always like a rewriting of the Dammaphada or the Tao-Te-King. Hm.. I probably had too much sugar today. But I think I might be up to something. Anyway. Thanks for your blog. Best of all.

 
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