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I can't see that Parsons...

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I can't see that Parsons...

I can’t see that Parsons is doing anything rude. He doesn’t say that he is abrupt or unfriendly with the person when he tells them they have 30 seconds. He doesn’t say that he rushes the customer off the phone - to the contrary, he says he listens to the problem, then gets the info he needs to deal with it.

Lastly, he doesn’t say that he never returns voice mail messages. He doesn’t return messages from people who don’t say what they want.

I’ve been following the same rules for years.

I spent two days as a telemarketer, enough time to learn that the quicker you hang up on them the better off they are. They are forbidden to hang up on you: as long as you keep the conversation going, they are obliged to counter every argument you say. If they do not get a firm no they have to keep talking to you. The nicest thing you can do to a telemarketer is hang up on them as soon as you realize you will not be buying what they are offering. They will be just as happy if you do not waste the seconds to tell them what you are doing, either.

Bob Parsons' hardass time management By: Merlin Mann (27 replies) November 28, 2005 - 3:44am
  • I have long been trying... By: Lisa Jewell Michael (2005-11-28 04:02)
  • I am going to have... By: christy (2005-11-28 04:24)
  • Even worse are those people... By: antirealist (2005-11-28 04:29)
  • Unless I know your phone... By: Bill Brown (2005-11-28 04:34)
  • Cell phones often make people... By: Beth (2005-11-28 06:26)
  • Interesting that he felt he... By: Scott (2005-11-28 07:33)
  • I couldn't agree more. ... By: Leslea (2005-11-28 08:42)
  • While home for the holidays,... By: Heather (2005-11-28 11:31)
  • All good ideas, and I... By: mark (2005-11-28 12:47)
  • Heather, your dad RAWKS! I... By: Shannon (2005-11-28 14:11)
  • [...] I treat my phone... By: Seanco » Blog Archive » Bob Parsons’ hardass tim (2005-11-28 15:09)
  • [...] Merlin Mann at 43Folders... By: Your message and other things you say » Blog Archive & (2005-11-28 15:43)
  • If you were in boy... By: davidk (2005-11-28 15:48)
  • Two things from my past... By: Gabe (2005-11-28 18:57)
  • [...] Dans la mine d’or... By: Le blog » Archive du blog » Comment ne pas se fa (2005-11-28 23:44)
  • "I very rarely return any... By: Brent (2005-11-29 17:00)
  • My job demands a mix... By: Tom J (2005-11-30 02:32)
  • Parsons is rude. Yes, his... By: Dan (2005-11-30 16:13)
  • I agree with Dan. ... By: Sah (2005-11-30 18:52)
  • I agree with Dan and... By: Beth (2005-12-01 01:35)
  • Reading over some of your... By: Bart Smith, Author (2005-12-01 02:00)
  • Brent, interesting comment. I just... By: xyb (2005-12-01 03:51)
  • I can't see that Parsons... By: Teri Lester (2005-12-02 18:22)
  • Interesting thoughts. I myself... By: Lisa (2005-12-02 20:45)
  • I would add that you... By: Randy (2005-12-02 20:58)
  • I use caller ID at... By: Tank (2005-12-03 03:13)
  • I have found a courteous... By: Mike (2005-12-06 06:48)
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