And seeing as you are a man involved in Church as I am myself, another thing that has been instrumental in changing my life is the realization that (at least here in the States), a lot of Churches survive on the backs of those who are willing to carry the load of 10 people. Aside from burning out the people who think they can do it all, it also prevents others from learning to develop their own gifts and talents because there’s often no perceived room for them to lead anything. Realizing that I need to get out of the way and allow someone to carry part of the load has been a true blessing.