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Time management for parents
MIkael Lindberg | Oct 10 2007
The excellent news that Merlin is joining the parent flock prompted me to write this post. I became a parent about a year ago and I've been battling the "loss" of about 8-16 hours of every day to parenting and the unpredictability element that babies bring to your schedule. I'm interested in hearing what other parents have done in order to keep a grip on their schedule and their lives. For me, the most extreme effect was that I decided to change jobs in order to do something I really like, despite having to take a 50% pay cut. I just can't afford to waste hours doing things that doesn't make me happy. I've also taken a few hints from Merlin and now carry a small note pad (sort of a hipster PDA) in my pocket at all times for capture purposes. I think my previous attempts at GTD has failed just because I havn't needed it enough. Now, I can't survive without it. As for handling the unpredictability element of children, my wife and I have a system where we try to never replan the current day schedule but instead handle exceptions as far into the future as possible. This keeps our schedules reasonably stable. What are your experiences? 58 Comments
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NapsSubmitted by twebb on October 10, 2007 - 2:45pm.
The most disruptive factor for us so far been the nap. Like Brandon we are big believers in getting the kids on a schedule (we have two boys, 5 and 2 years old). While a schedule can work great by keeping everyone appropriately rested and happy, it can be a real pain when it comes to getting things done. Weekends tend to be the only time we have to shop, visit, play, etc. because we both work during the week. When you really need two to three hours to get those two or three important tasks done and you have to schedule around nap time (or worse, nap times) it can seem impossible. If you follow a similar "schedule 'em" approach, you'll need to plan ahead for departure and return times and keep a close eye on the clock. You'll need to prep family and friends for what might seem like untimely departures when it is clear that an impending "I need a nap" meltdown is in the works. We have found that you can reasonably manage a missed or significantly delayed nap right when it happens, but you'll probably pay for it later. » POSTED IN:
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