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Time management for parents
MIkael Lindberg | Oct 10 2007
The excellent news that Merlin is joining the parent flock prompted me to write this post. I became a parent about a year ago and I've been battling the "loss" of about 8-16 hours of every day to parenting and the unpredictability element that babies bring to your schedule. I'm interested in hearing what other parents have done in order to keep a grip on their schedule and their lives. For me, the most extreme effect was that I decided to change jobs in order to do something I really like, despite having to take a 50% pay cut. I just can't afford to waste hours doing things that doesn't make me happy. I've also taken a few hints from Merlin and now carry a small note pad (sort of a hipster PDA) in my pocket at all times for capture purposes. I think my previous attempts at GTD has failed just because I havn't needed it enough. Now, I can't survive without it. As for handling the unpredictability element of children, my wife and I have a system where we try to never replan the current day schedule but instead handle exceptions as far into the future as possible. This keeps our schedules reasonably stable. What are your experiences? 58 Comments
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RelaxSubmitted by nelking on October 11, 2007 - 8:35am.
Kids smell stress and fear.... They also are unique and each one takes different handling. Just when you think you've got "the system" they mess it up. So flexibility, a love of change and most of all, humor are best to have in your plan. Management by objectives is a nice thing to TRY with teenagers, granted not always successful but, it keeps the expectations up front and prevents the swirling down into blame and argument most of the time. Oh and once they hit school, emphasize best EFFORT over Acheivement... we're a little behind on that but are trying to hammer that point across. » POSTED IN:
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