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You cannot have productivity or time management without priorities

My problem is that I have too much Stuff TM that I want to do. I have tons of hobbies and I love to learn, be it by reading, watching documentaries, whatever. I also like to participate with various communities I am a part of. What I am coming to realize is that the main reason why I am not productive and cannot manage my time well is that I am scattered all over the place. And it's not like at work where I can go to my boss and say that I have time for four project out of these ten so choose six for me to work on. This is my personal life; my so called leisure time. Reading one book means missing one documentary which means not participating in some online game which means not working on one of my four or five hobby coding projects which means not playing one of my 25+ computer games, etc.

I spend my entire day always thinking about what I am not doing. And pulling a GTD and brain dumping will not solve my problems as there is absolutely no way I can get 10% done of the stuff I want to get done. The thought of giving up hobbies because I don't have the time for them is one I can't seem to bear. How does one go about choosing Anime over PC strategy games, yoga over tai chi, electronics over philosophy, or Everquest over World of Warcraft!!! Until I make a painful decision give up whole meaty chunks of my life I drive myself crazier trying to time manage it all and I will never be productive; even if in some cases productive means finishing a science fiction novel or a module of Neverwinter Nights.

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Tinjaw, I know you've mentioned...

Tinjaw, I know you've mentioned in another thread that you're just starting to implement GTD -- have you tried thinking of all your conflicting leisure activities as Someday/Maybe items? Do your brain dump, don't convince yourself that it isn't going to help (because that's a good way to shoot yourself in the foot before you begin), and you'll find that this book or that project can safely get put away because once it's on the list you don't have to actively think of it all day; you'll find that other things can be dropped because you really aren't inclined to ever get to them, and not because you feel like you're under pressure to drop some percentage of the whole list.

 
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