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Personal Mantras: Got one?

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I’ve been digging the personal mantras that people have been adding to the wiki.

It’s interesting to see the different approaches and interests people have been taking; for some it’s an affirmation, for others it’s a motto or creed, and for many it appears to be a persistent reminder about the right thing to do.

My mantra—if you can call it that—is “Smaller, smaller.” It’s a principle more practical than spiritual, I suppose. I say it to myself several times a day to try and always remember that small things are easier to do than big things, and that most big things are really just a pile of small things if you break them up right. In real-world terms, “Smaller, smaller” means:

  • sub-projects
  • small-sized teams
  • modest, achievable goals
  • granular tasks, TODOs, and, yes, “next actions”
  • fast deadlines
  • frequent, but very short, check-in meetings
  • understanding how one piece leads to the next
  • making it hard to fail

There’s been very few times that “Smaller, smaller” has done me wrong. No matter how ambitious a project, idea, or problem is, there’s usually a way to break into very small pieces. Anyhow, that’s mine.

Got a personal mantra or motto of your own? Why’d you choose the one you did?

(And, no, “I believe I’ll have another beer” probably doesn’t count.)


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John Englert's picture

Ever read E. F....

Ever read E. F. Schumacher’s Small is Beautiful? It was one of the earliest proponents of APPROPRIATE technology.

Nick Dominguez's picture

I think the "Smaller, smaller"...

I think the “Smaller, smaller” mantra really hits the nail on the head. It’s all about taking the grand goals or projects in our lives and making them more “digestable” It’s interesting to see how the “chunking” principle sorta comes into play on this as well.

Michael's picture

Make it easy to do...

Make it easy to do and you will do it easily. Make it hard to do and you won’t.

soxiam's picture

Do it right. No faster....

Do it right. No faster. No slower.

grubi's picture

I know it sounds clichéd,...

I know it sounds clichéd, but I prefer:

Be like water.

and

Simplify.

I also created this one:

If what you want cannot be achieved, alter what it is you want.

Adaptability is key. As is simplification.

Josh's picture

"Do less with less"...

“Do less with less”

Patrick's picture

There's a better way, find...

There’s a better way, find it. — attributed to Thomas Edison

EdgeWise's picture

My wife's old professor used...

My wife’s old professor used to say “Think. Plan. Do. Finish. Publish.” over and over.

He said the world would be much better if more than a few people did more than three of the five.

Outside academia, Publish has equivalents that turn your private project into something that impacts the rest of the world. (“Ship it”, etc.)

Brian's picture

It doesn't have to be...

It doesn’t have to be perfect. It does have to be finished.

Dan Hulton's picture

"Do things not in *spite*...

“Do things not in spite of them being difficult, but because they’re difficult.”

Hokey, sure. But it’s the shift in attitude that’s important. Don’t do difficult things to get them out of the way, do them because doing them is rewarding.

Griff's picture

I used to work in...

I used to work in a organization that was dominated by “crisis management.” This state was so extreme, that seemed as if a crisis was created just to give focus on a daily basis. At this time my mantra was “doing nothing is always an alternative” in response to the crisis du jour. This actually served me well but required some discipline to ensure that I wasn’t deciding to do nothing just to reduce my workload. I would use the saved time to actually focus on meaningful work which as a project leader meant planning, coordinating, and getting hands-on with implementations. Another way to look at this is that not every action deserves a reaction.

I had another mantra that was catchier, “violence is always an option.” My staff and colleagues liked saying it but it was never exercised, at least not to my knowledge.

In retrospect, it seems like a passive-aggressive response to a poor management culture. It worked at the line-level but did little to truly change the situation or address the root causes.

Justin August's picture

You Must be the Change...

sarah's picture

I stick with "Courage!" It helps...

I stick with “Courage!”

It helps with big, scary things and small, boring things, which covers most of my life.

Matthew Pennell's picture

"I am a f**king god!" Overly-confident...

Overly-confident self-belief has always been my mantra…

David Barrett's picture

Whenever I see myself slipping...

Whenever I see myself slipping into procrastination, or losing focus, I tell myself “I will not be a mediocre man”. That’s probably my biggest fear… that I will get comfortable and stop trying to be achieve something worthwhile.

Josie Fraser's picture

I've always liked the cosmetic...

I’ve always liked the cosmetic company slogan “if you’re not in charge of your skin, you’re not in charge of your life” because it so nicely counters an obsessive belief in control over everything and perfectionism.

I also like “it’s better with shoes”.

Kevin Kennedy-Spaien's picture

"Constant incremental improvement"...

“Constant incremental improvement”

Tricia's picture

My two favorites: "Never give...

My two favorites:

“Never give up, never surrender!” - “Capt. Taggart” in the movie Galaxy Quest

“Never give in, never give in, never, never, never, never – in nothing, great or small, large or petty – never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense.??? — Winston Churchill, in an address at Harrow School, October 29, 1941 (often slightly misquoted)

Sarah’s “Courage!” is one I use a lot as well. Matthew’s I use only sometimes - without the asterisks and with an ‘ess’ - but rarely with things that matter to me, though perhaps I should try it more often. David’s may be my next screen saver (with a noun change), if he doesn’t mind. In this distracting world, I need all the focus help I can get.

grubi's picture

The old Roman maxim sticks...

The old Roman maxim sticks with me when I need inspiration: Dare something worthy. Heck, I pretty much quoted it in my wedding vows!

Wade Rockett's picture

"You're capable of handling this." For...

“You’re capable of handling this.”

Josh's picture

"The best is the enemy...

“The best is the enemy of the good”

Ashby's picture

"If I don't do this...

“If I don’t do this like it matters, it probably will.”

Matthew Morgan's picture

"Think, don't worry."...

Think, don’t worry.”

Christopher Walken's picture

"Needs more cowbell."...

“Needs more cowbell.”

Kathleen's picture

"Be bold"...

“Be bold”

Dean's picture

1. Who are we...

  1. Who are we not to shine?
  2. Focus on the process, the actions and not the outcome.
  3. Don’t worry. Everything works out for the best.
david meadows's picture

che dorme non piglia pesche Sicilian...

che dorme non piglia pesche

Sicilian for “he who sleeps doesn’t catch fish” (equivalent of ‘you snooze you lose’)

justin's picture

"If you wanna hoot with...

“If you wanna hoot with the owls, you gotta fly with the eagles.”

—My dad on why I had to cut the grass while nursing a horrible hangover. Stuck with me—I can’t sleep in past 6:30.

Kathy's picture

"God hates a coward" (if...

“God hates a coward” (if I’m nervous about doing something or about the outcome)

“Motivation follows action” or “Start Somewhere!” (if I’m dragging my feet)

Kolya Miller's picture

carpe diem! Seize the Day....

carpe diem!

Seize the Day.

 
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