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Keeping to your priority when others give you deadlines

I've been having a bit of trouble with this lately, and I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts on the matter and how to cope with it. I've only been using GTD for a couple of months now so I'm not entirely comfortable with it yet.

I'm a PhD student and while I generally have a lot of work to do, most of it does not have strict deadlines - things will, to some extent, get done when they get done, and my overall goal "get phd" is still 2 years or so off, so doesn't exactly lend itself to motivation!

So, most of my NAs do not have time limits, which suits me quite well. The problem comes when someone else sets me an assignment - for example, at the moment I have some exams to mark which I don't have a deadline for, but I feel I should mark as quickly as possible as otherwise my boss will start bugging me for them. It feels as though I take work set by others to be more important, and I must do it quickly so as to appear efficient, but when it's my own work, I can put it on the backburner. This would be all very well, but the sort of work which gets set by others tends to be things which aren't going to get me a PhD - prepare a general talk on our work, organise a practical class, look up the costs of office supplies etc. A lot of these things need to be done, but they don't normally have to be done now, yet I feel a great deal of time pressure when they are assigned to me.

So my question is really how do you keep your own priorities whilst not ignoring work set by others? Particularly when you're on the bottom rung of the ladder and can't delegate the tasks...

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There's a good post on...

There's a good post on the blog about "the qualified yes":

http://www.43folders.com/2006/01/06/modest-change-qualified-yes/

(Every time I try to visit tha link it makes my browser grind to a halt.)

The basic principle is that when somebody asks you to do something, have a range of answers ready besides "yes" or "no".

"I guess it would make sense to put 3 hours per week into that... what do you think?"

"Sure I can do that, but along with my other commitments it will take me 2 months"

Provided you can give the appearance that you're really managing your commitments in a sensible way, rather than trying to shirk all requests, then people seem to respect this.

If your boss doesn't like people to give qualified answers, he/she'll look for somebody else who just says "yes" to every request, and give the work to them. :)

Really if your boss is giving you tasks to do, he should also be giving you deadlines. Most people don't do anything unless they're given deadlines!

 
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