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How to divorce your laptop

If you’re in a soul-sucking marriage with your laptop, you’re not alone.

Last week, I confessed the details of an embarrassingly codependent relationship with my laptop.

It’s with me virtually everywhere. On the bus, at work, at home, in bed. And yes, it even goes with me to the toilet.

In desperation, I begged you, fellow 43 Folders readers, to share your experiences and tips for breaking up with a laptop. Many of you empathized, offering very useful suggestions:

Here are my five favorite strategies for dumping the old silicon ball and chain:

  1. Create laptop-free zones
    Just because you can take a laptop everywhere, doesn’t mean you should. To reduce laptop usage, designate areas in the home where laptops are forbidden. This includes the bed, sofa, and yes—the toilet.

  2. Park it
    You can even go further and allow laptop usage in only one location in your home. Zac Garrett suggests getting an external monitor to essentially convert your laptop into a permanent desktop. The hassle of disconnecting all the wires makes you less likely to remove your laptop for trivial, non-urgent reasons.

  3. Go wired
    We love wi-fi, but it’s a very convenient excuse for laptop abuse. To really park your laptop, Chris Bowler advocates getting rid of the wireless router and replacing it with a standard wired one. That way, it’s impossible to take it with you to the bathroom. ;-)

  4. Set a laptop a curfew
    In addition to physical barriers, set a curfew for your laptop. Matheepan Panchalingam creates a house rule: “no computer use after 7:30pm for any reason, with the exception of days I am “on call” and may have to remote connect to a server somewhere.” If you’re weak-willed like I am, bring in heavy duty tools such as MacMinder to limit your computer time.

  5. Get a real desktop
    For a real divorce your laptop, it’s time to start a new relationship with a real hunky desktop. Gunnar Þór Hafdal replaced his laptop with a new iMac and now rarely touches his laptop. Instead of an unhealthy marriage, they’re now just friends.

Thanks to everyone for the sage advice.


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jmccance's picture

Batteries

Careful with #2. I hosed my old PowerBook G4’s battery by leaving it plugged in at my desk for days at a stretch. At the time I didn’t have any real need to go portable, but when I later did I discovered that my battery petered out after about a half hour.

So if you do start using your laptop as a very small desktop, remember to give the battery some exercise every so often.

jaap's picture

I'm all for #2

Big fan of number 2. I have a large number of peripheral devices hooked up at home and at work, all to the same MacBook Pro, which itself rests on a nice glassy iCurve: an external monitor and external storagemic, mouse, keyboard and more, connected with a single USB plug to the laptop using a fairly big USB hub. Having a power brick at both locations is good idea as wel, so you only have to put the laptop down and connect a few wires. The result is an ultra portable yet highly comfortable workspace. And the bonus is: having to disconnect the laptop is just a little bit too much of a hassle to take it with you to the bathroom.

drummergirl's picture

Re: How to divorce your laptop

Or #6 Get an iPhone ;)

redw0rm's picture

#6!

@drummergirl - so right. My laptop use is probably 1/3 of what it was pre-iPhone.

dominiquejames's picture

great advise.

these are great tips. i love it. and i certainly find the tips useful. i’m going to put them all to good use and free myself from the tyrannical shackles of my laptop. good thing there’s the iphone.

dennishay's picture

UNPLUG

I have found that I can’t seem to put the stupid laptop down either but a hack that seems to work for me is to un plug the laptop and run it with battery only… this gives me between 3-4 hrs depending and when it dies I plug it back in and leave it … like a built in timer :)

D's picture

aka how to not have a laptop

Hrm, not to be Cap’n Contrary here but it seems like most of those are saying “pretend you have a desktop”. Which is to say, ignore any of the advantages of the laptop by nailing it into your desk. The curfew is not bad, but would be impractical for someone like me; dennishay’s battery trick is a good one fer sure. But ideally you want to divorce the (unnecessary) things you are using the laptop for, not the laptop itself. For me that was feeling like I had to check a million feeds every 10 minutes.

Which is not to say I don’t bring it everywhere. I am addicted to potentially using a laptop. So not like I should be giivng advice here.

kevin's picture

Don't cut off your hand for a papercut

I still don’t think these workarounds make a real solution. If the problem is that you’re compulsive about using your laptop, I think you won’t be helped by depriving yourself of it part of the time. You might smoke less because of smoke-free buildings, but that doesn’t solve the real problem, which is that you’re addicted to cigarettes.

I think the best thing is to cultivate good usage habits — Take facebook out of your daily bookmarks. Leave your email program closed. Hide the dock so your programs don’t tempt you. Stow your files someplace you can’t see them until you start to think about wanting them. Use SpiritedAway. Above all, open your laptop and do what you wanted to do and close it.

AboveTheAether's picture

Minuteur - use it, love it

Minuteur is a great little MAC OSX egg timer. I’ve ben using it for a few months and find it REALLY helps to notify me when I’ve been spending too much quality time with the laptop.

Give it a try.

-Dave

Yaphi's picture

Went with a desktop

My only machine has been a Macbook Pro for almost 2 years now. I just upgraded to the Mac pro and haven’t looked back. The Macbook Pro sits on my desk and hardly ever gets used unless I travel. Being able to shut the monitor off, shut the mouse and keyboard off, makes it a pain in the butt to sit down just to do a little browsing. I get much more done now.

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Chanpory helms LifeClever, a blog about design, productivity, and “life hacks.” During the day, he’s an interaction designer for Dubberly Design Office in San Francisco.

He’s also pushed pixels for MetaDesign, MoveDesign, Youth Radio, and McShane Adigard Design (MAD). When not feeling modest, he likes to brag about his interaction and branding work for Macworld, PC World, Symantec, Adobe, Yahoo!, and Four Seasons Hotel.

 
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