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AskMe: How to become an eccentric (or just look like one)

Suggest eccentricities for me to adopt | Ask MetaFilter

From a fun AskMe thread:

In my quest to become more distinctive, I'm looking for suggestions of harmless eccentricities to adopt. Who better than the MeFi hive mind to provide them? Anecdotes of eccentric folk you've known in the past welcome.

This reminds me of that stage where teenage girls randomly start to affect a terrible british accent, or when college freshmen suddenly stop wearing shoes and take up raw foods and the shakuhachi. Of course, this is not to say that I haven't had ideas of my own.

’Fess up: what was your goofiest affectation and what made you stop it?

Clarification (2006-07-15 10:20:20): The "In my quest..." portion above is a quotation from the link that is referenced; it's not actually me asking for help to (God forbid) become more eccentric. This confused some people, and, well, I regret your confusion if you have any and hope this clarification helps. -- The Management

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I once wore the same...

I once wore the same pair of jeans and the same shirt every day for several months. I didn’t really do this to be eccentric, but on a bet. The bet was to wear the clothes that I had on every day until the end of the school year. As you can imagine, this entailed washing them every couple of days or so. I lost the bet. Even though I was a bit of a tomboy, I was also enough of a clotheshorse that after a while it became confining to wear the same damn thing every damn day. (Not to mention the damned job of washing the same damn thing every few damn days.) So, I just quit wearing them, and paid my friend the $5 dollars. By then, I thought it was well worth the price to not have to wear the same damn thing every damn day. I guess I learned a lesson about vanity then. I had imagined that I was immune to the pull of fashions and fads, but it cost my $5 to learn that I actually do care a little bit about my appearance and that it was just as much vanity to suppose that fashion didn’t matter to me, as it was to be ruled by fashion. I also learned an even more valuable lesson about making stupid bets.

 
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