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Time management for parents

The excellent news that Merlin is joining the parent flock prompted me to write this post. I became a parent about a year ago and I've been battling the "loss" of about 8-16 hours of every day to parenting and the unpredictability element that babies bring to your schedule. I'm interested in hearing what other parents have done in order to keep a grip on their schedule and their lives.

For me, the most extreme effect was that I decided to change jobs in order to do something I really like, despite having to take a 50% pay cut. I just can't afford to waste hours doing things that doesn't make me happy. I've also taken a few hints from Merlin and now carry a small note pad (sort of a hipster PDA) in my pocket at all times for capture purposes. I think my previous attempts at GTD has failed just because I havn't needed it enough. Now, I can't survive without it.

As for handling the unpredictability element of children, my wife and I have a system where we try to never replan the current day schedule but instead handle exceptions as far into the future as possible. This keeps our schedules reasonably stable.

What are your experiences?

chris.frampton's picture

He he.

A few good tips for you, Merlin.

  1. Buy the Bugaboo. People will tell you that it's too expensive, that it's too hip, that it's impractical. Hogwash. It's been the single most important baby "hack" my wife and I have made. It goes everywhere and is almost indestructible. Also, it starts as a bassinet, becomes a car seat carrier, then a backward facing stroller, then a forward facing stroller, and then, when you have the second, they can stand on the rider thing-a-ma-jigger. All of those things for the price of one expensive one.

  2. All your time management work was for naught. You'll have to really learn to focus now.

  3. Make time for you and your wife (I think you're married) after the baby is born. Part of that: find a way to go on vacation, just the two of you, for at least a week once a year. Huge, huge deal.

  4. Don't drop the kid and have fun. Having a kid is even cooler than being asked to speak at Google.

 
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