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A Day Unplugged: Frenzied Blackberries vs. Kwai Chang Caine?
Merlin Mann | Mar 3 2008
I Need a Virtual Break. No, Really. - New York Times In yesterday’s New York Times, Mark Bittman wrote an entertaining and thoughtful article about realizing that his need to stay wired, in-touch, and updated was really starting to eat into him. His headslap moment came on an international flight, as he realizes “the only other place I could escape was in my sleep.” He goes on to talk about the difficulty of maintaining even a single day of “Sabbath” from electronic communication and media:
But, eventually, he settles in and starts to enjoy things that would never appear on his radar screen on a wired day:
Eventually (natch), he returns to the wired world. So it goes. I liked that this piece was written from a personal perspective, which, to my mind, is the best (and, often, only) place to start any kind of experiment around hacking time and attention. And, I do really like the idea of periodically accepting (enforcing?) days without media and wires. Truly, you’ll never realize how difficult this can be until you really make it happen. But, as Bittman notes, once you get over the initial crash, you can see a striking contrast in what your life could look like. Good stuff. But, like a lot of pieces on wired overstimulation, this one comes close to conflating the axis of “work” with the axis of “electronic media.” Which, in my opinion, is an unwholesome confusion to abide, even just in appearance — especially since it could be seen as blaming inert matter for our problems, while allowing us addicts (and the culture we’ve permitted ourselves to grow accustomed to) to get off way too easy. J’accuse!Let’s be brutally honest, here — I can “work” at my computer for 10 hours and do nothing but dick around with Wikipedia and YouTube. Heck, even if I do “work stuff” like email and “research,” I can easily trail off in a hundred directions that have nothing to do with my initial task. Is that the fault of the computer and the internet? Maybe, kinda. But, no more so than I can reasonably blame this crappy hammer for that awkward birdhouse I built. Stupid hammer. So, let’s start by admitting that one reason we spend so much time in front of a screen (or hooked up to an iPod or SMSing on the phone or updating Twitter) is simply because we can. Because it’s fun. And because it’s easy. It makes us feel…connected. Is it the fault solely of “my job” that I have to sit here all day? For me: I’m going to say a resounding no. Okay, then, so what happens when I go off the grid? From printer paper to rice paperWell, first, does it strike anyone else as funny that — notwithstanding Bittman’s desire not to get too “new-agey” — the main alternative to stressful, wired work appears to be acting like a monk on Kung Fu? I mean, I wonder if it says anything about us that our first response to unhooking (after initial panic) is to pretend it’s the 19th century and all we can do is read scrolls, meditate, or walk amongst the trees. For myself — once I’ve had my cup of green tea and carried a cauldron of hot coals with my forearms — I find there are lots of work-related things I can do without a computer, phone, or internet. Really good and valuable stuff that I tend to forget about or ignore when I’m powered up. Stuff like longhand writing, cleaning out old files, or just making my work area a more pleasant place to be. I’m not disagreeing with this fine article in any substantial way — I mean, it’s not hard to sell me on the idea that we allow ourselves to be overstimulated, or that it’s hard to stop. But, I do think it’s very important to be frank about what parts of our problem come from the hammer versus which parts come from our own hands. I think Bittman clearly gets that, but I’d hate for this article to just land on the CEO’s desk in the pile titled “The Internet’s Killing ‘The Enterprise!’” And, speaking of ‘The Enterprise’So: vaguely (but mostly not) related. Whenever a company proudly announces “No Email Fridays!” I just want to groan, wad up my David Carradine poster, and throw it across the dojo. Because, while I’m sure this kind of rule (or policy or experiment) is well-intentioned, it’s about as employee-friendly as ankle weights and morning jumping-jacks. Email is not the problem, America. The culture around email (and phones and meetings and SMS) is the real culprit. And we’re not going to change perverse electronic culture by nailing theses to a door or by social-engineering the crap out of our employees. Plus, I’ll just bet you, dimes to donuts, that “no-Friday-email” companies also breed a species of employee who spends most of Saturday making up for the lost time. (Instead of hanging with family or practicing having spears thrown at him by the other Shaolins) I’d say that if we need anything “enforced” across a company it’s periodic, rolling breaks from being accessible to everybody; to create an environment where everyone in the group or company knows the time and day when they will simply be uninterruptible, without exception, consequence, or need for excuse. That’s their time to do with as they please. Now, is this a distinction without a difference from just shutting off email? No way. For one, that email still piles up (even over the eight hours you’re commanded to ignore it). And what’s to prevent that Friday from being the day someone decides to just hand-deliver all their demands to my cube? What about meetings? And can we still call each other on the phone? Where’s the real break? Sane and firewalled time — yes, even to process email — is what people really need to have and depend upon. I’d say the company that wants to solve the “too much connectedness” problem would do well not just to focus on the easy solutions that involve masking symptoms. To really get closer to the root cause, it’ll require a much more profound rethinking of a culture that’s still 20 years behind the technology it supports. And that ain’t gonna happen with a memo and an “email-free” Friday. It’s not you; it’s usOn a personal level, accepting these kinds of radical fasts can be a terrific way to detox or to just reconnect with a world that’s further than arm’s reach from your keyboard. And it reminds us that (apparently) there are alternative approaches to a morning that don’t involve a mouse or a keypad. This is all awesome — even indispensable. But let’s not be lulled into thinking that the medium is always the murderer. So, yes: take time off from electronics and media, and take time off from work. But, be mindful about which is which — as well as which it is that you really need the break from. For most of us, the answer is an unequivocal “both!” And, finally, is it conceivable that what you really need the break from is new demands on your time? What does solving that problem look like? And can it really be accomplished simply by unplugging a few things for a day or two? (My guess: no, it’s actually a lot more complicated than that.) Me? I just want to inch toward a place where I get the problem enough that I can stop work for an hour to enjoy my iPod just as easily as I can take 10 minutes and a legal pad to draft a dull report under a tree. It’s ultimately how we’ll snatch the pebble, Grasshopper. POSTED IN:
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I'd settle for...
…an office with a door so I could actually get a weekly review done without interruptions. The “do not disturb” button on the phone is useless, as most of my interruptions are of the person-in-my-cube, hey-got-a-second? variety.
A resounding yes from me
I have to say I couldn’t agree with you more. The whole “electronic” thing is really a bit like life… Keep it in perspective.
I’ve worked with a few “no email Friday” companies and quite frankly it becomes a bit of a pain. Pojects move from being fast-paced (M-Th) to a crawl on Friday.
I have found when I tune into email late on a Saturday (because that’s my choice) compatriates in the “no email” company are beavering away on a Saturday morning, playing catch-up. Or, in some cases, they’ve written the email on the Friday and the auto-send forwards it at just gone midnight. Exactly, what is the point of that?
I have to admit I’m a Blackberry, email, IM, Twitter etc’d up person and I view the web through Google Reader. I’ve learnt there are times it’s OK to say “No”, but there are times when you have to bankrupt yourself to the broadcast messages and focus in on the personal ones. It’s OK to do that and once you’ve done it once or twice it feels OK to draw that line occassionally - keeping it in perspective.
In reality it should all be about “work/life balance”, not “electronic disengagement”.
Keep it in perspective.
distraction
I love it, Merlin. That was probably the most rational, bullshit-free post I’ve ever read on this subject. I was nearly as “attentionally scattered” before the Internet became a big part of my life as I am now—I used to hang out in libraries a lot as a kid. To blame the problem on technology is just a lame cop-out (but one that I’ve been guilty of from time to time.) This Internet is an enabler of distraction, not a root cause of distractibility.
right
I felt this way about the laptop divorce post. You said it well — people need to quit blaming their technology and start correcting their use of it.
With regard to keeping the what-you’re-doing axis and the what-device axis independent, lately I’ve made some applescripts that I run when I switch tasks. My “start work” script quits NetNewsWire and just about everything else, checks new mail, runs iCal, and displays iGTD. My “quit doing what you’re doing” script quits all apps but iGTD and ejects every disk. And there is no “do fun stuff” script — NetNewsWire and Safari only get launched manually. This is mostly helpful to me because my #1 distraction at work is noticing that there are RSS items unread, and even opening NetNewsWire in order to quit it runs that risk. ymmv.
Love the Sabbath
Great timing - I have been practicing this on Sundays for the past 2 months. And like the author it really hurt at first. It gave me a good appreciation for how addicted I am - I always need to ‘just check something’. Email, tweets, blog stats, work email…it never stops.
And I can personally back up the statement that it does get better. I still struggle every Sunday but have come to value the extra time to read books, play with the kids, or spend some time in prayer. I have really started to enjoy these other activities when I can focus on them. And when I reconnect Sunday night or Mnday morning I get more enjoyment online after the break.
So great article Merlin. And you are so right about the problem - it lies with us, not the technology. I’ve learned from this break on Sundays. Now during my week at work I take ‘breaks’ from IM and email and focus more on my tasks.
A whole town goes offline ...
… not by choice, but due to a farmer driving a post through the local exchange fibre optic link. Happened here last Friday. It took 24 hours to for the phone company to repair it.
Everything was down - fixed phone lines, cell phones, sms, internet, fax, credit card facilities and all teller machines. Port Campbell is only a small place but he effect of everyone being forced offline, all together was strange. Of course all work stopped. We found ourselves talking in the tea room wondering what to do. After the obligatory jokes we started just talking and got to know our co-workers that little bit better. We all had to change our mindset, thinking of little jobs we could do and then realising they too needed to a ‘connection’. Can’t email, oh well I will just fax the information! Just walking down to the store to get the mail - call me if anything comes up! Oh thats right no cell phones.
Walking down the street was strange. Business owners were hanging by their doors looking for news. Groups of people were congregating on the street seeking updates and the latest rumours. Then there were the tourists who had arrived, no cash, no fuel and no way out of town.
A very strange day and really underscores your point of how hard it is to go truly offline.
Curiosity and procrastination, a deadly mix
Good points Merlin. But I need a stronger cure. In college, when internet for the hoi polloi was a decade away, I managed to do analog Google time dissolution through the card catalog at the university library.
And, of course, the place had a complete set of back issues for Punch magazine.
The Meaning of Life....
This seems to me to be another extension of that eternal question, “what is the meaning of life?” How we spend our days, and what we want to accomplish with our lives, varies greatly. Some people live to work. Others work to live. Still others merge the concept of “work” with the concept of “live,” creating a kind of weird synergy.
What’s the point of “unplugging” and taking a “day off” (or declaring a no-email Friday) if it’s not addressing a life goal? My life centers around having a relaxed, stress-neutral environment where I occasionally accomplish things and generally explore existence. I don’t need a day off, since every day is fairly well balanced.
I think it’s a lack of balance that’s the problem, not anything more concrete than that.
unplugging my ears
I recently started a related experiment, I have stopped using my iPod during my 30-minute walk to work. At first it drove me crazy, but now I found I actually start getting really good ideas, I actually use my hipster PDA. I also wind up saying hi to people and generally feeling a little more connected. Good stuff. The hardest part is accepting that I might not listen too all of my podcasts anymore. Who knows what kind of vital information I’m missing.
Pencil and paper
I’m writing this post first with pencil and paper, just to see if I remember how it feels. Well— I do remember, but now it registers that when I’m facing the screen, about to post or IM or email someone, my brain goes to a different place. I go to the conversation / reaction / argument place, where in fact things are slower online than they would be in the real world, where I would be talking with someone. In screen mode, I’m cheating time because I can take a bit longer to compose my thoughts. I think that is something we naturally crave, that extra moment to get it right (how we wish we had lobbed that snappy put-down, the one we think of late at night when the argument’s long over). Analog writing on the other hand has no conversational immediacy at all. It’s like I’m writing to my diary. It is, I can clearly sense, a different brain space. I guess I miss it after all. Must be something to do with general brain health. Offline: the new gingko.
Re: A Day Unplugged: Frenzied Blackberries vs. Kwai Chang Caine?
An article that was recently published here in Australia deals with a similar subject. Both pieces help to remind us that we shouldn't take this digital revolution for granted, but also that we shouldn't allow our lives to be dictated by the technology we employ. Don't lose control of who the boss is in this situation.
For those who want to read it the article from The Age in Melbourne is here: http://www.theage.com.au/news/technology/can-we-live-without-digital-tec...
There's a few ways to "get away from the digital world"
Hello,
There was an interesting article I read related to “no media” days in Japan. The general idea is that for one day, there’s no TV/radio/internet/computer/etc. Granted, we probably can’t do this at work, but what I’ve done is dedicate Monday and Thursday evening to “no internet nights”. I can still watch TV (but I don’t have cable), use the computer (but no internet), and listen to music (which is an ipod usually). It’s still a bit media intensive to a degree, but I find that if I don’t have the internet, much of the time I can get done with my work faster at night, and then move onto something else - like reading (which I’m a huge fan of ). Again, of course, this doesn’t work at work, and it’s necessary to change these requirements to best fit the person - but overall, I feel it’s had a very positive impact on my life so far.
BBC discusses "email ruined my life"
Hi,
Here in the UK, the BBC are broadcasting a program called “email ruined my life” tonight (March 7) supported by a news item on the BBC news website: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/business/7281707.stm
Excitingly, it features an interview with the man who invented email. Not sure I’d admit to that myself these days …
I read the article and thought that it started to address one of your topics in Inbox Zero and your other podcasts, that people need to be taught how to handle and use email, rather then pick it all up by osmosis.
However, it will be interesting to see how the programme allots any blame about how we have allowed email to become a cage on our time and attention, what changes to culture are needed, and what sort of advanced common sense is available for people to use. Whilst remaining free of any commercial bias of course.
They should, of course, have been interviewing you …