
I Need a Virtual Break. No, Really. - New York Times
In yesterday’s New York Times, Mark Bittman wrote an entertaining and thoughtful article about realizing that his need to stay wired, in-touch, and updated was really starting to eat into him. His headslap moment came on an international flight, as he realizes “the only other place I could escape was in my sleep.” He goes on to talk about the difficulty of maintaining even a single day of “Sabbath” from electronic communication and media:
I woke up nervous, eager for my laptop. That forbidden, I reached for the phone. No, not that either. Send a text message? No. I quickly realized that I was feeling the same way I do when the electricity goes out and, finding one appliance nonfunctional, I go immediately to the next. I was jumpy, twitchy, uneven.
But, eventually, he settles in and starts to enjoy things that would never appear on his radar screen on a wired day:
I drank herb tea (caffeine was not helpful) and stared out the window. I tried to allow myself to be less purposeful, not to care what was piling up in my personal cyberspace, and not to think about how busy I was going to be the next morning. I cooked, then went to bed, and read some more.
GRADUALLY, over this and the next couple of weekends — one of which stretched from Friday night until Monday morning, like the old days — I adapted.
Eventually (natch), he returns to the wired world. So it goes.
I liked that this piece was written from a personal perspective, which, to my mind, is the best (and, often, only) place to start any kind of experiment around hacking time and attention. And, I do really like the idea of periodically accepting (enforcing?) days without media and wires. Truly, you’ll never realize how difficult this can be until you really make it happen. But, as Bittman notes, once you get over the initial crash, you can see a striking contrast in what your life could look like. Good stuff.
But, like a lot of pieces on wired overstimulation, this one comes close to conflating the axis of “work” with the axis of “electronic media.” Which, in my opinion, is an unwholesome confusion to abide, even just in appearance – especially since it could be seen as blaming inert matter for our problems, while allowing us addicts (and the culture we’ve permitted ourselves to grow accustomed to) to get off way too easy.
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